3. It’s not natural to feel an orgasm, but you need to try to find out what your body likes.

“It’s not an essential need to have sex like eating or sleeping,” Engel said. “Even if you don’t feel the orgasm, there’s nothing wrong with living.” In other words, it’s not natural to feel an orgasm every time.

According to Engel, certain factors must be satisfied to feel the orgasm. First of all, in order to be satisfied when having sex and feel an orgasm, you should find your partner attractive and safe to be with. It is also important to agree with partners. Obviously, there’s someone else who feels better when having sex.

First, explore your own body. Let’s try self-defence and find out what posture or method makes you feel better,” Christopher says.